Clay from Love Is Blind Shares His Reasons for Joining the Show Despite Doubts About Marriage (Exclusive Interview)

During season 6, Clay Gravesande was transparent about his doubts regarding commitment and faithfulness in a relationship, even leading up to his wedding with AD Smith.

Netflix’s season 6 finale of Love Is Blind saw Clay Gravesande grapple with personal struggles regarding marriage and loyalty. Despite his reservations, he decided to open up about his uncertainties on the show, culminating in his decision to not go through with marrying Amber Desiree “AD” Smith. The 31-year-old now reflects on his experience, sharing that his hesitations stemmed from his upbringing and witnessing his father’s infidelity. He admits to having moments of self-doubt leading up to his wedding day, acknowledging the internal battle he faced between making a commitment and questioning his ability to follow through.

According to Clay, reflecting on his time with AD, he learned a valuable lesson about integrating his fiancée into his life. He recalls that their relationship faced challenges when they couldn’t stay at their townhouse due to his allergy to dogs, despite his love for her dog. However, as he started having her stay over at his actual house and join him at the lake, their relationship improved significantly.
Clay believes that if he had included her more from the beginning, their transition to the Charlotte area would have been much smoother. Despite some regrets, he is proud of how he portrayed himself on the show. He feels that going through the ups and downs of emotions was a learning experience that ultimately made him a better person, and he wouldn’t change a thing.

In the season finale of Love Is Blind on Netflix, Clay and AD faced a dramatic moment at the altar. AD agreed to marry Clay, but he surprised everyone by ultimately saying no. Clay expressed that he needed to work on himself before committing fully, causing heartbreak for AD and leading to the end of their relationship. Despite her love for Clay, AD realized that she deserved someone who was truly ready to be with her. The emotional rollercoaster of their story highlights the complexities of love and relationships. Join in on the drama by watching Love Is Blind season 6 on Netflix and catching the reunion special on March 13th. Stay updated on the latest entertainment news by subscribing to PEOPLE’s newsletter.