Kody Brown, from the popular reality show Sister Wives, has created discord within his plural marriage by showing favoritism towards one wife, Robyn Brown. As a result, the once-respected patriarch is now facing backlash and criticism from others in the family.
In Sister Wives season 18, Kody Brown’s onscreen unraveling has not gone unnoticed by fans, who echo the frustration and anger expressed by his wives. Despite Kody’s attempts to shift blame onto misconceptions about himself, viewers are seeing right through his excuses. Fans are fed up with Kody’s refusal to acknowledge his role in the family’s issues, which he essentially caused himself. It’s no wonder that Kody is on the receiving end of harsh criticism and negativity from audiences.
The latest season of Sister Wives highlights the consequences of a patriarch who plays favorites among his multiple wives and fails to address the resulting turmoil. In a polygamous dynamic, the man holds all the power, making him responsible when things fall apart. Kody’s blatant favoritism towards one wife while neglecting the others only adds fuel to the fire. Rather than owning up to his mistakes, Kody deflects blame onto others, fueling the dislike and disrespect aimed at him. In a recent interview with Us Weekly, Kody seems oblivious to the reasons behind his negative reception, leading to the question: is he really unaware of why fans dislike him?
It’s truly astonishing that Kody fails to grasp why he’s receiving so much criticism. In the past, he may not have been the most self-aware person, but his recent remarks about negative feedback from Sister Wives viewers indicate a startling lack of emotional intelligence. It’s possible that he’s deliberately turning a blind eye to the reasons for the backlash, choosing to ignore his own shortcomings rather than face the consequences of his actions. Admitting fault would open up a whole can of worms he’d rather avoid. It’s much simpler for him to play the role of the misunderstood nice guy, perplexed by the animosity from Sister Wives fans.
However, taking this approach comes with its drawbacks. By refusing to address the issues at hand, Kody is pushing away the very people who tune in to watch Sister Wives. Viewers want to see him confront reality and make amends. Throughout the show’s run, they’ve witnessed Kody favoring Robyn over his other wives, neglecting their emotional needs and responsibilities as a partner and parent. While Meri, Janelle, and Christine struggled with feelings of jealousy and neglect, Robyn seemed to have Kody’s undivided attention. The dynamic within the family became imbalanced in a profoundly unhealthy manner.
The feedback from Sister Wives fans reflects these sentiments, as many have expressed disappointment and frustration with Kody’s behavior.
On Reddit, Sister Wives enthusiasts recently shared their thoughts on Kody’s questionable behavior, with fans airing their grievances about the patriarch’s actions. In a thread initiated by user HappyHippoLover a while back, the criticisms were harsh. One fan highlighted a particularly low moment for Kody:
Another fan brought up Kody’s decision to skip his daughter Ysabel Brown’s scoliosis surgery as one of his worst moves. This took place during the COVID-19 pandemic, and Kody refused to bend his strict rules to be by his daughter’s side at the hospital. Another commenter on the same thread slammed him, stating:
Criticism also arose when Kody fat-shamed Christine for indulging in some delicious nachos. It seems he expects his wives to eat like birds, but Christine wanted a tasty treat and wasn’t afraid to eat in front of him. In response to his offensive comments about Christine’s food choice, a fan expressed their disapproval:
Kody has definitely made some missteps. He displays chauvinistic behaviors rooted in outdated patriarchal beliefs. Kody is stuck in old-fashioned ways of thinking and often makes poor choices while thinking he’s superior. Criticizing one of his wives’ eating habits is rude, and his absence during his daughter’s surgery left Ysabel and fans disappointed. Comparing his wives to panting dogs is just distasteful. He shares 18 children with these women (and his favorite wife, Robyn):
In a separate Reddit thread initiated by user World-peace96, a fan expressed their dislike for attention-seeking Kody as an “attention pig”:
These comments from fans only touch the surface. Positive remarks about Kody on social media platforms are scarce. Whether it’s on YouTube, Reddit, or Instagram, Kody is often the subject of ridicule. While some commenters poke fun at him without harboring real hatred, others genuinely despise him. When the latter group criticizes him, their words and memes are filled with animosity.
Fans may use the patriarch as a target for their frustrations. If a viewer of Sister Wives is having a rough day, they may go online to vent their frustrations by tearing into Kody, possibly feeling a sense of relief. However, it’s worth noting that some of the criticism directed towards him is valid. Kody Brown sees himself as a hero, but the opinions of fans suggest otherwise.
Kody’s behavior switches between portraying himself as a martyr and a hero, but he never acknowledges his villainous actions. While he idolizes Robyn and sees himself as worthy of respect, he fails to recognize the harm he has caused to Meri, Janelle, and Christine. Despite believing he is a devoted family man, Kody’s aggressive behavior and hostility towards his ex-wives are evident to fans. When he plays the hero, he claims to have made sacrifices for the Brown family, but in reality, his actions have torn them apart. Rather than taking responsibility for his role in the disintegration of his relationships, he blames his ex-wives for leaving him.
Kody’s narcissistic tendencies make him believe in his own righteousness, though some experts suggest this is a defense mechanism. His need for praise and self-identification as a hero may stem from underlying emotional fragility. As evidenced by his breakdown during season 18 when his wives began to assert themselves, Kody struggles to cope with criticism and rejection.
Despite Kody’s ex-wives’ efforts to connect with him, their relationships deteriorated. Meri, emotionally abused and cheated on Kody, while Janelle, his confidante, lacked the romantic spark he found in Robyn. Christine’s jealousy towards Robyn hindered their spiritual bond, ultimately causing further strain in their relationship.
Fans of Sister Wives have criticized Kody’s behavior, labeling him as a low-life due to his mistreatment and neglect of his ex-wives.
According to the Us Weekly YouTube video above, Kody is losing the respect of fans. They criticize him for not showing up to family events and for his questionable dance moves. Kody seems to be aware of the negativity surrounding him and is struggling to win back the support of viewers. It’s suggested that Kody should have been more honest about his feelings towards his other wives, instead of leading them on for so long.
Taking a cue from Robyn, Kody has adopted a passive-aggressive approach in his interactions with his unloved wives. This behavior, seen in season 18 with Meri, where he suggested she live in a “barndominium” and store his belongings there, has caused fans to turn against him. They can see through his actions and believe he is purposely hurting the wives he doesn’t truly care for, rather than genuinely trying to assist them. This manipulative behavior has caused fans to draw parallels between Kody and “bad men” they may have encountered in their own lives.
Many female viewers of the show Sister Wives have made comparisons between Kody and the worst men they have encountered in their lives. Some men may feel the same way. Kody has gained a reputation for being disliked because he embodies the characteristics of players, clowns, and dirtbags that viewers may have had negative experiences with in the past. These individuals could be former partners like ex-husbands or ex-boyfriends, or even current partners who are displaying unfavorable behavior. Viewers seem to be projecting their frustration onto Kody, possibly as a result of repressed anger towards men they have known. This resentment often surfaces when they criticize the patriarch of the show.
Is Kody bearing the brunt of blame for a multitude of toxic relationships, including those depicted in Sister Wives? It seems likely. By serving as a reminder of the negative traits some men exhibit, Kody solidifies his place as a controversial figure in the realm of reality TV. In fact, he may even be considered its ultimate villain.
Comparisons have been drawn between Kody and notorious antagonists such as Darth Vader and Satan, labeling him as a weakling, a failure, and worse. His choice of a white sports car and his curly hairstyle have not escaped mockery, as virtually every aspect of Kody’s persona and appearance have been scrutinized and criticized. While he may not be as awful as he is portrayed, he has certainly failed to win over the majority of fans.
Even with the focus now primarily on his relationship with Robyn, viewers continue to find reasons to dissect and criticize Kody. Despite his attempts to keep to himself, it seems impossible to satisfy the Sister Wives audience. Whether he is voicing grievances about parental alienation or expressing a desire to mend relationships with his exes, Kody remains a lightning rod for controversy. The issue lies in his inconsistency, as he often shifts from casting blame to seeking reconciliation, leaving viewers puzzled and frustrated.
It appears unlikely that public opinion of Kody will change anytime soon. For some individuals, he serves as a convenient target for their animosity. Even if he were to undergo a significant transformation, it is doubtful that those who harbor hatred towards him would find contentment in his change.
No matter what actions he takes, it seems Kody is stuck with the negative reputation he has acquired. Even if he were to dedicate himself to charitable endeavors or adopt a serene lifestyle as a Buddhist monk, public perception of him would likely remain unchanged. Therefore, Kody’s best approach may be to simply try and find moments of joy amidst the ongoing criticism and scrutiny.
